Buying a fixer upper without the help of Joanna Gaines is a lot harder than I thought. In general, I am terrible at executing choices. I hem and haw and backtrack and over-analyze to the point where I make everyone around me annoyed. I gain momentum in starts and spurts, trying my best to decide upon only what I absolutely love or is useful. All the while trying not to feel too bad about this unforeseen kink in my shopping ban (more on this another time).
I spent May deciding upon the perfect white paint and now after a few months, it feels empty. It might be that I have still yet to put art up on the walls (need to find more frames), or that we also have white curtains (should I buy new patterned ones?), or maybe we just need a little more color in our life (could this be accomplished with throw pillows alone?). Either way, in a moment of curiosity I slapped this paint sample up on the wall.
It is nimbus grey and I really like it. It lends itself to being more of a blue than a gray. I think it would go great with the white trim and we have a lot of windows to keep the room from going too dark, but I hesitate to take the plunge. Our house faces east so we get great morning sun and we go without lights on for a majority of the day but I do love the extra light that comes with white walls (great for photographing little cherubs).
I also feel kinda silly painting Blue Beauty all white only to paint her blue again. Maybe blue is in her bones or maybe I am just crazy.
Would it be easier if I just let everything just be for now and paint back over that little blue patch? Probably. I feel like curtains would a much easier fix short term.
To add another kink or aid into the mix, we plan on getting a new couch for Christmas. This navy one was a temporary fix after our year of travel and it was not built for young families. The cushions constantly slide off and it is too soft, making it impossible to get off for a pregnant lady. Plus we are running out of room for everyone to fit on it, we like our space. We are leaning towards a tan L-shaped sectional with washable covers. Something kid friendly and preferably not microfiber. Merry Christmas to us eventually!
If we go blue on the walls, the fireplace would probably be painted white. I feel like painting the walls just opens a pandora’s box of more things to do/buy.
We are also thinking about putting in some bracketed shelves on either side of the fireplace. But here lies the question, should they be all wood painted all white or should we modernize the house a little bit with some rustic metal brackets and stained wood shelves (a la Fixer Upper)? Think about it with the blue-gray vs white?
Either way I will be so happy to have somewhere to put my books and smaller framed pictures.
Almost 100% positive we will end up putting the tv above the fireplace. I had the random idea to possibly get a smaller tv (the one you see was a hand-me-down) and set it up on a swivel mount next to the fireplace. This would allow us to pull it out at an angle when we actually want to use it. But still…might be weird.
Here is another conundrum I am trying to decide upon. Which art should fill the space between the windows? The awesome family name art that my friend hand drew (yes, she is amazingly talented) or that sweet tile mosaic that was in my childhood home growing up (the previous owner left it in the basement and there it stayed for many years). The family name or the mosaic could be a part of the art gallery wall that I plan to put above the couch but the mosaic is very heavy and has to be screwed in, so I can’t decide that until I decide on whether we are repainting or not.
See my problem? Everything is interconnected.
Also, our lighting situation is real weird. There are no overhead lights but it looks like there might have been at one point in time. We need to check that situation out and see if recessed lighting is an option or find a chandelier or something. Maybe just prettier floor lamps for now?
I feel like I know NOTHING about home design. Where is my Emily Henderson?!?
Moving on to our funky kitchen!
I realized I hadn’t given you guys a proper visual perspective of this kitchen. Well, here ya go!
She is all over the place right now and will be a part of phase 2 of house renovations (aka next summer/year) but here are some ideas that I am mulling over.
The wallpaper is cool but wouldn’t a chalkboard wall be cooler? Random fact about Gina, I hate chalk. Why is this not keeping me from wanting a chalkboard wall? Danny LOVES to color. In the past month he has colored his way through five notebooks that I bought for cheap during the school supply sales. He is an art monster that cannot be stopped. Would giving him chalk be a terrible idea or the perfect solution?
If we paint the living room blue-gray, I want to paint the cabinets a light sage green (kinda like our retro oven!).
No matter what the inside of the cabinets will be painted. Currently they all rest at a pepto bismal pink that does not help with upset stomachs.
In phase 50 of renovations we will update the oven, fridge, countertops, and flooring, but for now it all works so it all stays.
In conclusion, there are SO MANY DECISIONS!!!!
Help.
My style is a weird mix of traditional, classic, rustic and bohemian(eclectic?)). It is so fun in theory finding different ways to make this house feel like a home but I lack confidence in executing this space to match my vision for a cheerful, warm, bright space.
With all that said, I will leave you with my favorite pins on pinterest to give you an idea of the mess my decorative brain is in.
Obsessed with Stephanie Nielson’s living room. If I could copy it precisely without being a total weirdo, I would. Nimbus grey is on her walls and I love how she has warmed it up with rustic wood tones and bright, cheerful colors.
Oh Dear Drea’s dining area. Love the warmth and eclectic-boho vibe.
Fixer upper shelves?
or cottage white?
Pretty pretty. Reminds me that I should buy some plants.
Any and all advice, thoughts, decisions are welcome. Thanks in advance!
Michele says
Will your mosaic go with the white or blue walls? I like your idea of colorful throw pillows.
maxwell.virginia@gmail.com says
The mosaic will definitely go with both.
Naomi Jenkins says
For starters, definitely fixer upper shelves over those white ones, in my opinion. Also, for now I really think you should stick with the white paint and try colored/patterned curtains. Wayfair has some crazy good deals on a wide selection of curtains pretty much always. And yes, throw pillows will add more character to your room than you might expect. Granted, I’m no decorating expert, but I know a few and I’ve been taking notes from them for a while now. Our house is still so far from being decorated and it’s been a year, but I know the anxiety to just have it done and ideally perfect. But give yourself time to meet things come together slowly. The best (professional) decorating advice I’ve ever been given is to only buy things you absolutely love. Don’t worry about how they will go with other things, and don’t buy things you don’t love just because you think they go with your space. Eventually, your home will be decorated with only things you love that bring you happiness and somehow it will all just work together because it will be so you. I think that’s what Stephanie Nielson has done, from studying her picture, and it so works! Your personality is so vibrant and eclectic that your space should definitely reflect that!
Brittany Tew says
I go through the use type of thought process. I think O live decorating… them I find it is super hard.
A friend once told me to start with the big things. Furniture and a rug will help you define the space. Then you can add in your accents.
Also have you considered doing something like shiplap or wood above the fireplace…like Stephanie Nielsen’s photo or even the whole wall wood? It would create an awesome focal point. Molly Neal did some sort of wall like that with wood from pallets. Just a couple thoughts.
There is no shame in copying either. If you love something…go with it. Your own personality will inevitably shine through.
Brittany Tew
maxwell.virginia@gmail.com says
You know, that is a great idea for above the fireplace that I hadn’t even considered. Probably won’t happen for awhile but you got my mind gears moving!
Brittany Tew says
Perhaps I should spell check before posting next time….
I go through the same type of thought process. I think I love decorating only to realize that it is super hard. Best of luck?
Brittany
Loraine nielsen says
Hi, I’m laura Nielsen’s mom, and she sent me a link to your blog. Your house has so much character, I love it! When I saw your nimbus gray swatch on the wall, I thought yes, I love that color, too. but It looks much darker in your room than it does in Stephanie nielson’s, wouldn’t you agree? I learned through my own experience that when I love a wall color as a swatch, I need to go 1 or 2 shades lighter when I do the entire wall. look at centsational girl for ideas if you love blues/grays. I think shiplap over the fireplace would be just the right amount of wood with white bookshelves.
maxwell.virginia@gmail.com says
We decided against the blue for now. I think that was my biggest worry as well, she has A LOT of windows in her home brightening the blue and for all the windows we have, it doesn’t quite brighten it enough. We finally put some art up and everything is looking MUCH better.